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  • Writer's pictureDanielle Terranova

You’ve Been Promoted From Peer to Boss, Now What?

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Congratulations! You’ve climbed the ladder at your company and earned a coveted position as someone's boss. It's a remarkable achievement that reflects your dedication, expertise, and leadership potential. However, transitioning from a trusted team member to the leader responsible for guiding, inspiring, and making critical decisions can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. The dynamics shift, expectations evolve, and responsibilities multiply, presenting numerous complexities and potential pitfalls. Yet, within these challenges lies an opportunity for growth, transformation, and leadership excellence. With the right strategies, mindset, and support system in place, you can navigate this transition gracefully and emerge as a successful leader for your team.


Key Strategies to Transition From Peer to Boss

Invest in Relationships

Relationships with superiors often involve a higher level of formality, and your new reports may struggle with what’s been said in the past, as well as how to behave now that you’re in a leadership role. (1) Acknowledge the discomfort of adjusting to new roles and set the tone for your desired relationship dynamics from the outset. Be open, vulnerable, and supportive as you establish new connections. (2) Dedicate time to deepening connections with your team on both personal and professional levels to demonstrate your commitment to the partnership. (3) Prepare your team for situations where your leadership role takes precedence over prior friendships, discussing these scenarios beforehand to avoid catching anyone off guard. (4) Be sure to refrain from engaging in workplace gossip, drama, or inside jokes, as these behaviors will quickly undermine perceptions of your leadership.


Collaborate on Expectations

As you transition from peer to boss, it’s important to collaborate with your team to define the vision, goals and standards for performance on the team. While it can be tempting to lay out a plan and establish goals and expectations on your own to demonstrate you know what you’re doing, you’ll miss a key teambuilding opportunity if you go it alone. (1) Involve your team in defining the vision, goals, and performance standards to foster alignment, ownership, and accountability. (2) Encourage each team member to outline their roles, responsibilities, and objectives to prevent misunderstandings. (3) Facilitate brainstorming sessions to establish collective performance expectations, identify success factors, and outline goals, fostering alignment and accountability. (4) Support your team in designing strategies to achieve established goals, providing guidance and support along the way. Schedule regular check-ins to maintain clarity and encourage open communication and feedback.


Support Career Development

The key to establishing a strong and supportive leadership approach with your team, and also the effort we most often overlook, is supporting their ongoing career development goals. (1) Prioritize learning about the personal and professional development goals of each team member. (2) Schedule regular professional development meetings to discuss their aspirations and provide mentorship and guidance. (3) Create comprehensive development plans for each team member, identifying opportunities to enhance their skills and experiences. (4) Create a supportive environment that facilitates a healthy work-life balance, accommodating personal goals outside of work.


Empower Your Team

Empowering your team members to take ownership of their work and contribute meaningfully to the organization's goals is key to driving lasting success. While it can be tempting to hover, micromanage, and require high communication as you acclimate to the demands of a new role, try to resist the urge. (1) Empower your team members to take ownership of their work. (2) Provide autonomy and resources to foster motivation and dedication. (3) Adopt a mentorship role, encouraging team members to report on progress and offering support when needed. (4) Recognize and celebrate achievements while providing constructive feedback to facilitate growth.


Seek Mentorship and Support

Transitioning to a leadership role can be daunting, but seeking mentorship and guidance from experienced professionals can help ease the transition. The best guides are often those who can say, “I’ve been here before, kid; and I know the way out.” (Kudos to anyone who gets The West Wing reference). (1) Look for mentors within your organization or industry who have successfully navigated similar transitions and can offer valuable insights and advice. By learning from their experiences and tapping into their wisdom, you can gain valuable perspective, avoid common pitfalls, and accelerate your growth as a leader. (2) Don’t underestimate the power of peer networks and professional development programs, which can provide additional support and resources as you embark on your leadership journey.


Transitioning from a member of the team to the boss is certainly a challenging process, but also so rewarding if you get it right. By acknowledging the complexities of the transition and implementing key strategies for success, you can navigate this shift in workplace dynamics with confidence and grace. Remember, leadership is not about being everyone’s best friend or having all the answers; it’s about inspiring and empowering others to achieve their full potential. Embrace your new role with humility, resilience, and a commitment to continuous growth, and you’ll be well on your way to becoming a great leader with a positive impact.


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Danielle Terranova is the voice behind Leadership Lessons with Danielle.

She has been an executive coach since 2015 and owner of Terranova Consulting, LLC since 2019.


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